Like MattB I have the 49mm B+W 10 stop ND filter that I've used on the DA15 without issue screwing into the front thread. I don't have expereince with the variable ND filters but they all look larger than a single filter option.
My other filter system for ND's are from the Cokin P square filter system as well as Singh Ray. The Cokin P mount does have an adaptor for 49mm threads, though whether it will fit with the hood I can't say. This is the adaptor here:
Cokin "P" Series 49mm Adapter Ring (P449) CP449 B&H As the adaptor is relatively inexpensive it might be worth trying with the hood retracted as this will give you a solution. Due to the design of the adaptor I would expect that it might screw in partially and then the adaptor would be caught by the front of the hood. This might be too loose or sufficient to work without a problem.
An alternative method of using the square ND/Graduated ND filters is to handhold them. I've done this on the 15mm without any major issues but the lens hood does have to be retracted and you have to be mindful of the direction of the light. Blu-tak and similar products have been used by some as a makeshift filter holder though I don't know if it would negatively harm the resin filters.
Another alternative that might work for both the variable ND and the 49mm adaptor for a square system is to buy a cheap 49mm filter of any type and remove the filter to give you the 49mm thread as a blank filter ring. This would screw into the lens and the adaptor or screw-in filter can be screwed into the front of the blank filter ring. This should get you clear of the retracted lens hood. The only caveat is the potential for vignetting.
I'd suggest you consider the above as a cheaper options to replacing the DA15mm as it is a good wide angle lens and whilst I also have the Sigma 10-20mm I would prefer to use the DA15 whenever possible particularly when shooting into the light.
Good luck mate.
Tas