A really important consideration when getting into a studio light setup is light modifiers. Make sure you research the modifiers that are available for the system you intend to buy. Does it have a speed ring for quickly changing modifiers? Is that speed ring universal/open source or proprietary?
Depending on the size of modifiers you intend to use your power needs may vary. It takes more Ws to fill a 4'x6' softbox than a 2'x3' softbox, but you'll get softer light from the larg box. In addition to how much power to buy, you should also consider the filp side of that coin, "how low can I turn the lights down?" I like to keep my subjects a long way from the background, and my lights close to my subjects, so I frequently have to turn the lights down, or shoot at a smaller aperture.
The best advice I can offer you though is this: Never buy a piece of photo gear unless
you understand why
you need it. What works for someone else might not suit your needs or shooting style.
Here's a video that may help: