I'm sure I'll open myself up to some flaming with this post, but I figure that's a risk I'm willing to accept...
I just read a
post where a UK-based forum member (been on here since the middle of last year, I think) offered up, free of charge, a Vivitar Series 1 zoom lens - full of fungus, and on a Canon FD mount - to anyone who might be interested in it as a repair / restoration project. The first two answers he got were dismissive and - in my view - rude, even if the thought process behind them made sense. I have nothing against the people that posted those replies, but I dislike how they responded. I'm sorry, but I do.
I love this forum - I really do. I enjoy the wide range of discussions, I've learned so much, and I've been helped by many other forum members. I'm genuinely grateful for this. But a small though significant number of the posts I see are unnecessarily caustic. Usually I just let it go, but this time, no.
Some of us are more direct than others, I appreciate that, and some of us are more subtle, but all of us can and should show a little courtesy (and I acknowledge that most of us do, most of the time - I also know that I'm not perfect in this regard and I regret a couple of posts I've made in the past). It's so easy to be terse and harsh, sat behind a screen and keyboard, but I wonder how many of the overtly direct posters would be quite so direct stood face-to-face with the person they're conversing with? Where I come from, I know exactly how that situation would develop.
In closing, I really wish that everyone would think twice about what they're posting. Is there really any need to say something if it's not likely to be constructive? It doesn't have to be a response the OP wants to hear, but there are simple ways and means to get a point across without being unnecessarily brusque.
OK, I'm putting my crash helmet on ready for the onslaught
Thanks for reading this.
Last edited by BigMackCam; 02-06-2016 at 04:33 PM.