I think you're on K-1, right? If so, I think it's a tossup. Quickshift vrs limiter. Slightly nicer finish on the D-FA WR but aperture ring on the Tamron. Both very light and compact. If you were on APS-C, I'd say 100mm is getting just a little long for portraiture, depending on how much space you have, but on K-1 I don't think it should be a problem. Because the Tamron has been available for other mounts, there's a lot of IMHO fantastic and easy to find work out there using it, even for portraiture (
example #1,
example #2). I think on Pentax, because it's a smaller crowd and people tend to go more for the FA77 or the FA85 (or DA70, or...), and because the K-1 (where 100mm is a more friendly portrait focal length) is just out, you won't find
as much fantastic portraiture with the 100mm macro out there. But it's not for lack of capability.
For macro, it kind of depends on the answer to this question: tubes or diopters? If you ever want to go larger than lifesize, the Tamron is easier with tubes because of the aperture ring, and the Pentax is a tad better with diopters, because of its slightly longer focal length and absence of focus breathing. For example, with a Raynox DCR-250 on top of your macro lens, you get up to 1.7:1 with the Tamron, but 2:1 with the Pentax. Again, though, it's pretty much a tossup...