Originally posted by GlennG That's a pretty good exposure and thanks for sharing the concepts. Part of the issue for me is the whole dynamic of the shooting event and that is even another limitation by itself. No one of us in these situations is a paid photographer, or even the "main" photographer, and both the kids and parents tend to want things to move along very quickly, so it seems the event affords no time to do some simple experiments to get it better.
You shot in manual, GlennG, P-TTL is fast. You can get the look you were aiming for in your daughter's shot by choosing say, -1eV or more for the Exposure Compensation (to darken the background), then 0 to -1eV for the Flash Exposure Compensation, and leave it up to the camera.
But if there was a procession of kids all posing for the same shot, you could just get it right in Manual with the first one or a stand-in, then repeat the lot with the same settings. Very quick too, with consistency.
Originally posted by GlennG Is it possible for a helper to hand hold the off camera flash, so at least you don't have to move around a flash stand? .
Yes, you can even use a parent as your so-called 'Voice Activated Light Stand'. Put the flash and diffuser on the end of a monopod for extra reach/height.
Originally posted by GlennG I really like off-camera flash results that I've seen from others, but to be honest, I am such an amateur that I don't have either the radio triggers or the skill to do it right. .
? Radio trigger/receiver pairs can be bought for less than $100. That's amateur pricing.
No photographer, amateur or pro, was born with the skill to use a flash, either ... everyone learns it by doing.