Congrats on your third Ash. Our next will probably be next year when the adoption goes through. Not sure about a third.

Yes, I recall the same things with our first one, and we'll be going through it for the 3rd time soon...
Enjoy the journey, and I'm sure little Serafin will grow up to be a strong woman in this tough yet beautiful world.

Thanks Ash, and I've already found out about the work detail. Jess tore pretty bad so she's confined to bed and can't move too well. I've been doing everything apart from breastfeeding and even the Serafin had a good suck on my nipple just on the off chance there was something there for her.

Many congrats on your new bub.
Now comes the shared role in bathing, changing, getting up in the middle of the night to settle the baby... you may even be asked to get up at 2am and breastfeed the baby!