There are 3 ways to meter with the K10D and K20D and manual apature lenses.
green button, where in manual mode, you set apature and the camera sets shutter speed when the green button is pressed, Unfortunately in this mode you don't see the meter.
DOF preview, when used also activates the meter and you can see the exposure +/- relitive to the correct esposure and make adjustments yourself
AV mode, which with K mount lenses meters and esposes based on wide open only, and with screw mount works in stoped down mode.
be careful however, as the metering with manual apature lenses is prone to errors.
see the attached
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