First, buy or borrow from a library a good book on exposure and metering.
Amazon.com: Understanding Exposure: How to Shoot Great Photographs with a Film or Digital Camera (Updated Edition): Bryan Peterson: Books
is an excellent book on the topic.
The TTL metering SLRs are pretty easy - there are a couple of metaphors used in the view finder for manual metering.
1) 'center the needle' and its equivalent 'light the center LED' or some such.
2) 'match needles' and its electronic equivalents. One needle shows shutter speed and the other follows aperture.
The camera uses as input: ASA speed (you set when you load the film), aperture and shutter speed. I.e. the meters are 'fully coupled'. You change aperture or shutter speed to center or match needles. With match needle, changing shutter speed moves the shutter needle, and changing aperture moves the aperture needle. When the two are over each other, you have metered.
With the aperture priority automatics, you set the aperture on the lens and the camera sets the speed accordingly.