Originally Posted by JCSullivan
@LaRee, I would be too close to the action to be able to shoot a son's or daughter's wedding. I don't know how you can do it.
I know, but what ya gonna do?

I do have two friends that have shot a couple weddings and they called last night and said they will help. That takes a LOAD off of me. I may just hand the group shots off to them, so I don't have to set my tripod and jump into the shot as I had planned!

But then I think, I couldn't sit at my son's wedding and not take photos so I'd probably drive a professional wedding photographer NUTS. And I'm not sure I could trust all the photos to anyone else. I've seen enough really BAD wedding albums. Not to mention the cost of a good wedding photographer is absolutely out of the question for our family right now. When I look back on my own wedding album (we're coming up on year 25) and they are not the best compositions (my feet were cut off in a LOT and yet not tight portraits!) Lots of blurry photos etc. and I still enjoy looking back at the guests etc that attended. So I know that no matter what, the photos will hold value over the years and I take comfort in that at least.
I went to the church yesterday with a friend dressed in black and white so I could see how the light would be at 2pm. I took some shots to dial in my settings with the two lenses I'll use for the church shots and played a bit with fill flash. If we get a day like it was yesterday it will be absolutely beautiful in the church. I'm nervous and excited all at the same time. This is a big day! It's not likely I'll see my other two sons married for a long long time, if ever!