Originally posted by imfinetoday I've been thinking that. however, the times that i have tried manual, it's always come difficult for me. any helpful tips? is just something you have to take time to learn?
I see you are using the K20d. If it were the Kx or K7 I would suggest Live View but even then it can become cumbersome. Some get a split focusing screen to help with manual focus (center spot is split at 90 or 45 degree angle and when both parts are perfectly aligned, the subject is in focus). Where I would suggest you start, is practice with what you have. Start close, see what perfect focus looks like, and then zoom or move further back. Make sure that you've set the diopter on the viewfinder for maximum sharpness of the lines on the screen (that's the way I set mine).
For what it's worth, you Could try the live view on the K20d. I didn't find it all that useful, or even accurate when zoomed in. Your experience may prove different.
In your samples, the others are right. Your lady friend (wife?) at the furthest distance is somewhat dwarfed by the actual AF area of the camera. It's reasonable, that the camera might pick the nearest high contrast area for AF. You Could try selecting a different point and focus / recompose but I don't know if the AF area is different on the other points. I do know they are different Types of AF sensor points (line vs cross). That or try center AF and select something she is standing next to. At that distance, even the fence behind her (if she's leaning on it) would be good enough.
Frustrating I know, I sometimes experience the same thing with my DA12-24 but I'm confident it is not the camera or the lens. It's me and my expectations.