Just a quick note-- a couple of people have mentioned the new 18-135 WR lens coming out. I notice your dad has a *istD, and this new lens has a built-in autofocus motor which wouldn't work with that camera. (it would work with your K-x though, if you got one!
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Other lenses that would seem like a good choice but wouldn't AF on the *istD would be the Pentax DA 17-70 (SDM motor) or some of the newer Sigma lenses with HSM autofocus.
So I'd second Ash's recommendation of the Tamron 17-50/2.8. Great to have the wide end there for landscapes, good range for indoors and a pretty wide aperture for portraits too. Also it's a reasonably priced lens.