Buy every lens you can. You can never own too many lenses. I'm only at 180 now. A poll at the Manual Lens forum [
http://forum.mflenses.com/ ] shows AVERAGE ownership of 100 lenses, with one member owning 1500+. So my 180 are just a good start.
More seriously: When I bought myK20D I'd asked myself, "What do I want to do that I can't do with my advanced P&S?" and the answers were ultrawide, ultralong, low light, and macro. So I started with a DA10-17 fisheye zoom, a DA18-250 walkaround superzoom, a FA50/1.4 fast fifty, and a Raynox DCR-250 for closeups. Since then I've mostly bought old manual primes but those early lenses are still my most-used.
What kind of zoom(s) to get depends on the range(s) you want to cover. My few other zooms include the F35-70, FA100-300, Tamron 10-24, and Lil'Bigma 170-500. All these have their preferred situations.
We have many discussions here about 'portrait' lenses -- it depends on what you mean by 'portrait'. Formal sittings, grabbed impromptu snaps, head & shoulders, tight facials, full-body, what? Shots in controlled settings don't require autofocus; a manual 50/1.7 and 90/2.8 and 135/2.8 make a good cheap set for portraiture. The 75-100mm range is about best for 'roundness' with minimal distortion, but portraits can be shot with anything from 10mm to 1000mm, depending on circumstances.
Nah, just go ahead and buy every lens you can. You'll be glad you did.