A few years ago, I was dissatisfied with my advanced P&S. I asked myself, "What do I want to do that I can't do with what I have?" The answers were ultrawide, ultralong, low-light, and later, macro. So with my first dSLR, the K20D, I bought a 'kit' of the DA10-17 fisheye (that's what drove me to Pentax in the first place), DA18-250 superzoom, and FA50/1.4 Fast Fifty. Later, the Raynox DCR-250 for close work. And out of my now ~200 lenses, those are still among my most-used. I consider the DA18-250 as my basic lens; all others are specialty tools.
Oh yeah, of those ~200 lenses, ~10 are manual zooms, ~10 are AF zooms, just ONE is an AF prime (that FA50/1.4, splendid lens!), and the rest are manual primes. Mostly CHEAP manual primes and zooms. You can go a long way on little cash with good cheap manual primes.
The moral of this story: Don't ask, What should I get? Ask, What else do I want to do? Do you want to shoot action sports, weird insects, naked people, distorted 'scapes, street scenes, shiny coins, cute / funny / elusive animals, mirrored abstractions, surveillance / blackmail photos, straight-edge interiors, calendars / postcards, trash bins, crime scenes, stereotypical portraits, heavy machinery, what?
Think about the kinds of pictures you want to take and make; then think about the lenses that would help you achieve your desires. And maybe you'll end up with hundreds of cheap lenses too.