Afternoon and Welcome to Pentax!
It would probably help if you could expand a bit more on what and how the 18-55 is not fitting your needs (the focal length, image quality, lens speed, etc.). That would help all of us to suggest possibly something more appropriate. Also, down in the lens area there are lens "clubs" and here is the one for the kit lens. It is a pretty good lens for what it is. Pentax's kit lenses tend to be a bit better than the other vendors.
- The kit lens isn't the fastest, and with your wanting to work with ambient or natural light - possibly something faster - f2.8, might be better.
- Are you looking for just a single lens to cover all of your needs?
- Is size and weight a concern?
- Image quality?
There is generally a rule of thumb of 4x for zoom ratios (the lower focal length to the upper focal length) for lenses in order to maintain good image quality. Lenses with large zoom ratios tend to suffer from not having the best IQ, because the optical designer needs to make too many design compromises in the lens. That is why you tend to see zoom lenses in groups 18-55, 50-200, in order to have reasonable sized, high image quality lenses. Wide angle lenses tend to have even smaller zoom ratios of 2x (focal lengths smaller than 18mm).
Faster lenses tend to increase in size in order to gather the light and maintain image quality. The glass elements used tend to make the lens larger and weigh more.
You indicated that you like portraits. Portraits are usually done somewhere between 70 to 100mm, usually at 85mm. Image quality comes into play here, in that extremely sharp lenses with very high image quality, folks tend to shy away from for portraits because it highlights each and every flaw in someone's face, so you will see "soft" lenses used at times for this. Its the "you made me look ugly" comments.
Your comments about usually standing back to take pictures, could indicate you may want some additional focal length, so you can get "up close", with out actually getting up close.
Folks have responded with good suggestions, each tends to emphasis particular aspects of your request, but with a bit more information, we all could probably do a better job in helping you out.....