Originally posted by pxpaulx They should have given you an agreed-upon time to list the buy it now price, but in the end if you're just messaging with a seller/buyer there is no commitment, only an agreement really (which they honored too quickly apparently!).
Unfortunately, that's the tricky part about asking a seller to add a buy-it-now price. Once they do it, anyone can buy it
Typically when I've done this in the past (both as a buyer and a seller on eBay), we agree on an exact time to add the BIN price so that the buyer is ready as soon as the seller changes the listing. It can be a slight pain to try and coordinate that, but otherwise you run the risk of what the OP described.
Originally posted by richshoots (I really thought I'd get a heads-up first!). Anyway, if you're the person that got that sweet deal, congrats to you, how about buying me a beer!
Ok, instead of buying you a beer, how about I just let you have the lens instead as it seems I'm the one who got your sweet deal
Given the circumstances, and the fact that I wasn't going to keep it anyway, I'd rather you get the deal that should have been yours. I'll send you a PM when it gets here, which I imagine will be either Thursday or Friday.