Originally posted by MegaPower You are unlucky.
I used to live in a good apartment.
There was a package in front of my neighbor for 1 week.
No one would steal it and no one ever take it.
That's not a good neighbor. A good neighbor knowing you were away would take it, put it in their foyer and slip a note under the door of your apartment to let you know they had it. It's bad news leaving mail and such untouched like that when someone is away. It's an invitation to break ins even in an apt scenario. A lot of our neighbors spend half the year here, half away. If they forget to stop their paper we pick them up and recycle them. Give any left over mail to the office so they can ship it on.
I live in a pretty good place. The neighbors are cool. It's a real community and we have a watch system, and but still this isn't a crime free zone. Last year someone went away for the summer? Some guy in a moving van pulled in, told the guy at the gate that he was there to move some stuff for them, and they let the guy in without even checking with the residents. He broke in and cleaned out their entire place. Now you have to call the gate if you are expecting someone before and put them on a list, but that's what it took to get that level of security around here.
Around us, outside our gate? This town has gone to hell in a hand basket the past 5 years or so. It's generally safe inside them, but I still don't go around walking after dark like I used to when I was a kid. I trust my neighbors only so far and if I know that I am expecting something? I'm tracking it and home to get it when it's due or I make arrangements for it to go to my parents place where I know someone will always be there. One of my biggest pet peeves lately is Amazon using Lasership instead of UPS or FedExp. I don't like the latter two, but I detest Lasership. They never ask you to sign for anything and they just dump whatever it is that they're delivering, never buzz, and it's always late at night so you never know when they'll show up besides. It's totally crazy the way they do their business.
But no, if I lived in an apt now I wouldn't trust my neighbors at all. I'd have a PO box. That's just it. Genuinely good neighbors are few and far between these days. It's nice having some, but generally I don't count on having any, at least when it comes to getting packages. I can't even go to the grocery store around here without having to worry about getting car jacked and I supposedly live in the good part of town. Trust a $500 lens to sit there? Uh no. I'd probably have better chances of winning the lotto than on actually finding it there when I got home...