Hello Alamo500,
Some very good advice so far, I'll just try to add a bit, with a different slant;
Pictures, to illustrate a point.
DOF (depth of field) is the term we use to indicate how "far" the photo is in focus. By that I mean, if the main subject is in sharp focus, are objects closer and further away also in focus? Imagine a row of buildings, extending from near you (near your camera) to the horizon. OK?
You focus on the middle house, set your lens to f/2.8 at 1/500 second and click. The photo shows the middle house in sharp focus but everything else is more-or-less fuzzy.
Shallow depth of field/focus. Maximum bokeh.
Now you stop the lens down to f/22.0. This is 5 full stops "down", meaning you have let in much less light. Each full stop down lets in 1/2 the light.
Since the AMOUNT of light has been reduced, you have to allow more TIME for the light to reach the sensor. Shutter speed.
At f/4.0, you would have to increase your shutter speed one full stop (1/250s) for the same exposure. Half the light= twice the time.
At f/5.6, again you've cut the AMOUNT of light in half, so again you must allow twice the time, to achieve the same exposure. 1/125s
At f/8.0. once again the AMOUNT of light is reduced by 1/2, so the shutter speed is now 1/60s (roughly). Half the light, twice the time.
F/11.0 = 1/30s.
F/22.0 = 1/15s. Now we are in tripod, cable release territory!
But, what we've gained is DOF. Each stop down shows more houses in front and behind the main subject in sharp focus.
Maximum depth of field. Minimum bokeh.
Here's a group of photos that illustrate exactly what I've described. The post is by Matjazz, the 10th post on the thread;
SMC Pentax-DA* 200mm F2.8 ED [IF] SDM Reviews - DA Prime Lenses - Pentax Lens Reviews & Lens Database
Hope this helps!
Ron