Its funny about the 'advice' you received, hehe. I have found a much more accepting audience for such pictures in bokeh fan groups on flickr. I went from having a few views to a pile of positive feedback. It really helped me feel I wasn't disappearing up my own arse with all this 'bokeh only' shooting, hehe.
I've had similar experience with the VL125 as well. Similar to the Nokton in a fluid bokeh sense, but a lot more literal - if that is the right word.
(At the risk of going off topic)
VL125 @ 2.5
'Can Do' in the bokeh dept., very sharp in-focus plane even wide open and pretty easy to find it. But not in a storybook painting kind of way like the Nokton.
Did you try any closer focus type shooting with the 35? I had the chance to try the 28/2 at my local camera shop and was surprised by its close focus potential. Its nearly as close at the 25 (a few inches vs just over an inch) which is fine for most flowers and such
Zeiss 28/2 @ f2 close focused - worthy to see large for the detail clarity
Now, back to NOKTON programming!