im not really having reservations about it at all...my concern is being without my own lens when i am away, not for fear of damage. and my reason for posting was not about whether i should or shouldnt loan the stuff, it was more "would you get better lenses to replace the ones being loaned out, or just limit what gets loaned out"
i think people are a bit less trusting than i thought. friends loan friends stuff, all the time. i've leant computers to friends, which cost more than the camera gear she's getting. video camera, with a similar value. etc etc.
whether she can afford a trip to hawaii or not is not relevant to the discussion, in terms of if she can afford one she can afford the other.
she has her camera, she wants to try out mine and specifically because she saw certain shots from mine she cant get from hers. but, shes not likely, or doesnt expect to, become a dslr owner or user. which is fine and makes sense. why make a huge investment on something that to you is a mere curiousity.
now, i see it as an opportunity to show her how much better a dslr is, without being too daunting, and that i can show her this with a pentax and spread that experience, is a good thing from my POV.
Not saying I don't respect my camera gear--I most certainly do. I guess I am just a bit surprised that not one person was that trusting with their backup kit loaning to a friend to learn and possibly get into the hobby.
harsh crowd, i tell ya
and for the record, aside from how long ive known her and how good our relationship is, part of why i am willing to loan gear out comes from my early days as a HAM operator--14 15 years old, had no clue, other than some of this stuff is frickin expensive. And everyone teaching me the hows and whys, had no issues loaning me anything or letting me "play". And some of those rigs cost a lot more than most camera gear any one person here owns (some radios and associated gear ran more than a brand new toyota corolla). but they were willing to loan things out to those interested for 2 reasons-1-they want new blood in the hobby and 2-some folks love the hobby but can't quite afford it fully, or are interested but don't know if their interest warrants that much of an investment.
so i guess i see it as a similar risk/reward scenario. not lecturing, just guess im surprised no one really saw it like that. i don't know if she'll take a strong interest and want to buy it off me, or if she will give it back before her trip saying it was too much camera, or if the interest will end up somewhere between those two extremes. but im all for bringing someone else to the world of pentax!