Originally posted by Parallax if he had asked you what it was worth, or what you would give him for it and you offered $20.00 you could, arguably, have a reason to feel guilty.
I agree. Different (hypothetical) situation.
Originally posted by MSM But, I don't use that as an excuse to willfully choose to do something wrong. Willfully taking advantage of someone is always wrong.
Taking advantage is wrong. Accepting a requested price is not taking advantage.
Let's say you've decided to purchase an item for 1000$. You go to the store and the salesman tells you there is an instant rebate of 30%! You were willing to pay more but got a better deal. Is that wrong?
Originally posted by MSM 2. How would you feel if you found out that the seller was an 85 yo widow selling off stuff around the house so she can buy prescription medications or food or rent? I would feel awful! What if the seller was your niece raising money for college? Would you not be pissed and think that she was taken advantage of? Should it matter? Shouldn't we treat everyone fairly?
You're stretching it. You're implying accepting the lower price will prevent a nice girl from going to college. In my humble opinion, you're justifying the fact that your gut tells you its wrong, just like you're saying others are justifying their opinion that it's wrong to accept the asked price.
Originally posted by MSM Especially common now include asking outlandish prices for common lenses. This all done to in hopes catch someone who hasn't done his/her 'internet research.' We get worked up that these people are cheats and shameful.
I don't get worked up, but I do laugh a bit.
The principal point of disagreement spins around the fact that the seller fixed the price himself. I think it boils down to this : the seller is happy. you can't know the reasons why he set that price. You shouldn't presume to decide that he didn't know what he was doing and that he was "cheated". It's arrogant, sorry. All you know is that someone was happy to sell something, somebody happy to buy it, and that the asked price is lower than other prices for similar items. End of story.