I may need to go back and read your posts, but what are you intending to use the ND for?? if you want to slow the water at the beach during daylight hours, something like a 9- or 10-stop may be in order. If just to achieve some shallow aperture bokeh shooting in diffuse daylight, perhaps 2-3 stops (0.6-0.9) will suffice. waterfalls, depends on the ambient light, late day and heavy tree canopy, you would not need one. in direct sun, a strong one may be needed.
I shot landscapes in Maui recently and never once used an ND for anything, but YMMV certainly.
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I feel like you were steered away from that circular polarizer, but I found it to be essential for taking glare and reflection off green foliage and wet rocks at waterfalls. very useful.
BTW, I use a Hoya 9-stop ND on my DA15 for smooth water effects. I have it in three sizes (49mm, 67mm, 77mm). Don't ask me how many of those have been lost or destroyed, lol.