One more difference between the 55-300 and the 60-250 is magnification. Like most consumer zooms, the 55-300 has a semi-macro ability (0.28x), while the 60-250 has a magnification more typical for a portrait lens (0.15x). The 55-300 would be much much better for butterflies and such (or any similarly sized object).
If you think 200mm might be long enough, I'd vouch for the Tamron. It really is an impressive lens (optically). It's built like something from Fisher-Price, but the images are just stellar. I originally bought it for an event with the intent to sell it afterwards. I fell in love. It has a 0.32x magnification, so superb for butterflies.
Here's a sunset from last night, just amazing, beautiful flare resistance, Mmmmm, I just love this lens. (cross posted from the Single In January)