How about a completely different suggestion: Get the Tamron 70-200 used here on the forum for ~$600 or so, and also buy the Rokinon 85/1.4 for when you don't need autofocus and really want f1.4. Together, that would be $800-$850 or so, less than the lenses you are considering. I have the Tamron, and as far as IQ, I think it's better than the Sigma. The pictures just seem to have more pixie dust. The downside of the Tamron is it has a loud focus, so for weddings, I'd pick the Sigma, but outdoors, who cares about a little whirr noise. One big factor for me is the max magnification of the Tamron is 1:3, while the Sigma is 1:8. The Tamron does a decent semi-macro for butterflies and flowers and such, which I dearly love. 1:8 is useless for this.
I don't have the Rokinon, but I've seen loads of good work with it. Some Tamron Samples (click on them for full-sized images on Flickr):