When I had the same question, I chose the Tokina 19-35mm f/3.5-4.5. Compared to the kit lens 18-55, I like it much better, especially at the wide end. I don't like my kit lens at 18mm, it's pretty good at 24mm and 5.6 all the way to 55mm at f8. But at 18mm for some reason it's just not good. Maybe I have a bad copy (it's the AL II). But even though it's sharp from 24mm up, I don't like the colors I get with it.
The 19-35, on the other hand, is sharp throughout the range starting at 5.6, and especially at f8. I wouldn't say it's a lot sharper than the kit lens, in fact it's probably similar, maybe a tiny bit better. But it looks sharper because it has better contrast, and the colors are much more to my liking:
AF is pretty fast, a bit faster than my kit lens, and it's internal so it's not that noisy.
Mine was under 100 dollars in EX condition from KEH. Can't beat that price...
From what I've seen the Cosina/Phoenix/Vivitar/Voigtlander, though a different lens, has a similar optical formula and is also a good lens. I wouldn't hesitate to buy one, though the Tokina has the better build. Super solid. I'm happy with mine for outdoors - still looking for something else to use indoors... but that's a different story...
KEH has a Phoenix (Cosina) for 79 dollars currently if you feel inclined to try one out...
I have no experience with the FA J 18-35, or the Sigma 18-35 3.5-4.5 which also sells for under 100 dollars and might be worth a look...