My two cents.
Just get the DA 35 2.4. I have it for that purpose - low light family photos - and it turned out to be our walkaround lens outdoors as well.
Sometimes I use it with flash, sometimes just with natural light. Natural light pictures have more "mood" while bounced flash pictures are more technically perfect. I can also use one of my auto-thyristor flashes at 1/180 when the light is good, just to use it as a fill in flash. My Sunpak flash is perfect for this because its sensor underexposes - so it's actually perfect for just filling in shadows. I think you can buy these for 20 bucks - mine came free with my 12 dollar P30T camera
So the DA 35 2.4 will give you all this flexibility, and it's not expensive at all.
But here's the most important thing. It's not important just to be able to take pictures in low light, but how these pictures come out. The DA 35 2.4 isn't only sharp edge-to-edge wide open. It's also got something very cool going on when the light is dim. I can't really explain it, but this lens, that a lot of people consider a bit "flat" and even "boring" - really comes to life when the natural light is fading. It brings up the colors and contrast in a beautiful way, and a way no other lens that I own can. The images come out beautiful and often I hardly have to do any PP other than just adjust levels.
It excels in low light. I'd get one if I were you. Later you might decide to upgrade it to something like an FA 31 or Sigma 30 1.4 ART, but you'll know you'll be in the law of diminishing returns by then.