Hi PaPa, I don't think that driline meant it in a condescending way. Jatrax explained it best.
The 18-250 is a do-everything, jack of all trade lens but one thing it is not is a high-quality grade lens. Converters tend to slow down, and somehow degrade image quality of lenses mounted to it. An 18-250 is already slow as it is, and mounting it into a converter further slows it down. It will also handle image degradation worse than a faster, better glass. So driline is actually spot-on, but the way the message came across was maybe, just a wee bit over the top, but I'm sure that he meant well.
Enjoy your stay, ask some more questions, most of us are non-professionals, and many of us were once (or is still) confused by the technicalities in photography!
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