I think we had threads that compare these lenses before. Feel free to search for them. I seem to remember one was quite detailed, with lots of owners of both chiming in, and some posting sample photos.
Differences were in CA and fringing, bokeh character, DoF (55mm is more telephoto and has faster max aperture).. and of course features. DA* has some premium features, so if you need silent AF or if you need WR, then this is your choice.
Both are great, beloved lenses. I dont think either will be terribly disappointing. And regardless which one you buy, you will still want to get the other one some time later.
Originally posted by condor27596 I would use it for portraits.
Then you probably want the DA* 55mm. 43mm is quite a bit more wider, and portraiture is classically done with 85mm-135mm lenses on FF, and 55mm-85mm lenses on APSC.
I remember some portraiture photographer saying he would never us a 50mm for portraiture, that it is simply too wide, and has too much distortion/working distance problems even on APSC. He claimed 55mm is the minimum. So it comes down to how nitpicky you are