I think that I won't be getting DA40 f2.8 since I practically allready have it in my Sigma 17-50 f2.8. DA40 is light and small I understand that, but I want a shallower DOF which this lens simply doesn't have in comparison to other lenses that I am considering. I don't see the weight as a problem in any of Pentax lenses, it is only problem with Sigma 35 1.4
When looking at the samples of FA 35 f2.0 it is too soft for my taste even when stopped down, and that lens is not cheap. I think that I would be better off with FA50 f1.4 at 40% lower price even though it is not as wide.
So now I think about getting the FA50 f1.4, it is the cheapest of the three (FA 35, FA 43). I also looked at DA* 55 f1.4 and it is indeed great but a bit expensive for a lens that has Pentax SDM and could fail.
I have to sleep on any decisions. And also, thank you all on your suggestions, wonderful community on this forum