I doubt a 16/1.8 would be small and light
And personally I don't really see the point with super fast wide lenses. I find the DA15 to do a splendid job as a very compact wide angle lens. And you already have some great macros in the DA35, DFA50, and DFA100. They are all quite compact as far as macros go. The Sigma 70/2.8 macro weighs in at 525g but is a also a great lens from what I've seen from it.
Now, that wasn't the point of your post, sorry...
My "perfect lens" will be a set of lenses:
DA15 for wide
FA43 and DA70 for small alrounders
DFA100 for macro and short fast tele (combined with the DA1.4x TC fro more reach/magnification)
The one that doesn't really exist is "my perfect tele zoom" (the one area where I prefer zoom over prime). The DA55-300 is good and light, but I would love to have something a tad faster - but without having to lug 2kg of glass around. The DA60-250 is a good candidate, but a bit short for my needs - so I'll stick to the 55-300 for now.