Roentarre, I maybe should have expanded my comments. Plus you get a free bump so more people see it
The shot above you just posted is quite wonderful but it (this is strictly my opinion, remember this is all subjective!!) is also a little dull in one respect. The flower jumps off the screen and the colour is fantastic. It's a superb shot in every way but once you are done looking at the flower, what's left? Not much. If the background green had more colours or different colours mixed, then you'd hang around longer. Now these comments are more about subject matter than technical bokeh.
What I favour is half way between the first and second. The 'double line' that white sticks and background items will often cause for almost any lens is what is distracting to my eye. Actually there really wasn't an option above that I wanted to choose other than the first one. I would have preferred "like it with some distracting elements". So the more I write this comment, the more I realize that I like the bokeh but not parts of the
items in the bokeh . The 2 are seperate and intertwined at the same time.
If you were to ask me what painter I liked the best, it would be Monet or Renoir. Have a look at "Madame Monet with Child" or "Water Lily's"(Monet). Or Renoir's "The Skiff" or "Picking Flowers". These paintings are
all bokeh and much like the first image you presented. The painters have eliminated those elements that distract the eye and even though you naturally search the entire image, you always come back to the subject comfortably. Actually the bokeh they have created is much more of what you presented in the first image with out any distractions.
If you look at the little flower in the upper left of your image, that's what I really like.
Maybe the question for me is "How do you like this bokeh with this shooting angle and composition?"