Originally posted by beholder3 . . . I usually just drop all camera gear in a normal small backpack together with other items and so I don't want it all to be too large and heavy.
Obviously it is all about personal preferences and circumstances.
and the ability to make a decision on what to carry and use
" well, I might use it, and if I don't start using it, she may wonder why I spent the money to buy it and why I need to buy something else if I don't use what I got already "
indecision can cause you to take extra unnecessary equipment if you are like me
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as I said earlier, I think your choices are fine.
Have fun