To Tokina: I think we agree there is a normal angle of view.
The point I was trying to make is, there is a concept of normal perspective also, it's just not as well defined, in fact it's really hard to define. There are certain distances at which we normally interact with things. If you want to be artistic, it's great to throw out all ideas of "normal", but there has to be a normal to throw out. And there's also something to be said in art for showing people a situation as it would look to them if they were there.
If there weren't such a thing as normal perspective, we wouldn't have the freedom of applying abnormal perspective to obtain an effect, like the humourous effect
Barry Sonnenfeld gets from stretching people's faces. Is it funny "weird", or funny "ha ha"? In either case it's not normal, and he has to use wide angle lenses to do it, out of sheer practicality. If he had the freedom to change the size of the actors, or show only part of their face, he wouldn't have to use wide angle lenses, but he does, and so I believe, in practice, that wide angle lenses have a certain perspective attached to them. Feel free to unattach it at any time, but there are consequences.