For me the 50-135 wins over the four primes due to flexible use in wedding coverage. The sdm reliability however is a bit of a messy situation. The 55 shares this distinction but I own both and haven’t experienced any problems. I’m also a guy who has likely converted to screw drive more of the four DA* lenses that can be converted (16-50, 50-135, 200, 300) than anyone else.
Weddings may be a place where sdm is both good (quiet) and bad (potential for failure). Personally I think the noise issue is over rated.
On purely optical terms the da*55 is by far the most “normalized” choice of all of these lenses as it mimics an 85mm perspective and has a very large aperture. But I personally shoot portraits at many different focal lengths. I tend to enjoy both wider AND longer lenses for portraits than most people. However weddings also suggest potentially constrained venues where longer lenses may fail to provide the right perspective on apsc without backing up more than you are able to. So as much as I love the FA 77 and the DA 70 limiteds, I’d lean towards the DA* 55 paired with the DA* 50-135. I’d probably have a spare for each with me or screw drive convert the zoom and bring the fa 77 or fa 43 as a backup to the 55. At worst you are using manual focus if sdm dies and you quietly swap lenses at the first opportunity. As cheap as the 50-135 is you could buy a spare w/failed sdm and convert it as a backup.
To illustrate these lenses…
50-135:
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FA 77:
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FA 31:
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DA* 200:
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DA 40:
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Sorry nothing good with 55 or 43 is immediately available but these are good also. The 200, 31, and 40 are tossed in to suggest lens focal length is more about venue and perspective than a hard rule. You can make most things work within reason. All are shot on apsc which has a big impact on the shots.