Thanks for the replies!
I had some super bad experiences with analog-era filters but I guess as you all say with modern coatings it shouldn't matter. Will try out a few brands of protector for the different lens sizes to see which also have best dust-repellent features etc. (read that the Hoya HD gold is actually hard to clean, have a Hoya UV and a B+W already and now trying Sigma WR)
I think point and shoots are expensive for what you get, colors are often not nice, and not interesting for my kids, they play around with a smartphone as well, doubles as a camera so no added value for a point and shoot there. I even went all the way, got a used Nikon AW1 to see if it would be a good camera for kids to play with, but oh my this is not a camera for me, even at 1 inch the iso sensitivity is nonexistent, with the aperture of the lenses for it you can only make photos in the middle of the day in summer. It has a glass protection in front of the sensor that seems to mess up exposure at the slightest of confusing light, and the electronics of the zoom are crap often completely dark or light pictures at the upper and lower limit of the zoom. Will put this back on the classified ads where it came from, and hopefully there is someone who has a use case for this weird contraption
A K5 and 18-135 combo can be had for next to nothing, so I don't worry about my kids breaking it, my oldest of almost 2 has a great time pressing the buttons and hear the mechanics work, so it can be used as a distraction when needed, and most importantly the images it makes are great.