Kevin,
I own and regularly use both the 21 and 43 (with the 77 completing the triumvirate). Both do their jobs extremely well.
As for the 21 specifically, it is one of my workhorse lenses for weddings (receptions) and interior/architectural (admittedly in large buildings, though). Although the f3.2 bit sounds scarily slow, I have actually NEVER had a problem with this. During wedding receptions I bounce flash ('foofing') and when taking architectural shots I have as much time for an exposure as necessary, so there's never been an opportunity to run up against this limitation. Now keep in mind this is for my usage of the lens; consider your intended usage and think about whether the relative slowness (in comparison to the other primes) would affect what you need/want to do.
As for the 43, it's sweet. At first it was a love/hate thing. I had sold the 50/1.4 to get the 43, and the improvement is marginal, and in some areas actually not as good. For example, wide open the 43 is not as sharp or contrasty as the 50/1.4 (or 50/1.7, for that matter), and does suffer more from CA in high contrast situations. This lens demands a hood in those conditions, and the one that comes with it is inadequate for APS-C sensors. I got the following metal hood from B&H and it remediates a lot of the aforementioned issues:
B+W 49mm Screw-In Metal Telephoto Lens Hood #960
The bokeh on the 43 is sometimes buttery smooth, sometimes not, depending on aperture and what's in the background. It's a diva in this respect.
That being said, the 43 is capable of producing rendering you'll fall head over heels for.
Attached are some 43 images. Note that these have undergone post-processing (I always do post, to me it's an integral part of the photographic process, so why let a canned in-camera algorithm do it?) for sharpening, CA correction, distortion correction, blended exposures (not true HDR, but a similar concept), etc. But the 43 gives you mighty fine images to work with.