You are right that HDR does not please everyone. I really don't think that the HDR processing in the last example brings out any more detail that I can't see in the original. The original has wamth, depth, lots of color, and detail (nice job!) It feels like you have taken me there to that beautiful place. For me the HDR processing of the second shot made it lose its depth and warmth. Something doesn't "feel" right. It is "harsh."
You really take such nice shots of interesting places, stop screwing them up with HDR!
I hope I am making it clear that I really like your photography, I just don't like what HDR has done to it, but that has nothing to do with you.