Hello guys thanks for the feedback.
I think shooting wide open is the whole point. If you care to look at a couple shots from another photographer taken of the same subject with greater dof for comparison, here they are:
1 2. IMHO the unblurred background completely ruins the shots.
The whole point of shot #4 was blowing the picture. Only way I found to salvage it. I've attached to the post below the "original" picture. I think the way I processed it may not win any awards but is decent enough to show. Am I wrong?