Originally posted by kcobain1992 I'd like to believe that isn't going to be the best picture we'll ever take together. I even like to think that we have better pictures at the moment. But I digress. I remember, judging by the date, it was taken on my birthday. Strangely, looking back through last year's photos, I only seem to remember things that happened closely related to the photos I took that day. If I hadn't gotten into photography almost 2 years ago, probably I wouldn't have remembered any of these. Do I remember them artificially? would it be better if I didn't at all? I digress again. It's just that it seems I have a very short memory.
I can't even recall if I received any present for my birthday. I literally can't remember anything not related to the 18 pictures I took that day outdoors and 3 of a lens and hourglass (also on flickr), at home. I can't help but notice all my friends and acquaintances on Facebook that celebrate every and each of their birthdays like victories over life, with the standard parties, cakes, friends, joy, drinking, wishing well (like in 'I wish you well') etc.
That year I also had the clever idea to hide my birthday from my public profile on fb, so that no one was reminded that day. Of course only my parents, grandparents and girlfriend congratulated me (and what's to congratulate for, after all?)
But now I also have the position to question the artificiality of social relations and conventions. And though it seems awkward when I tell the story, I feel liberated that I spent my last birthday the way I did, on the edge of an artificial lake in Bucharest that I don't even like that much.
And to return to your statement regarding other couples and the nice pictures that they miss, let's face it, neither do they take chances and expose themselves to new opportunities, evade from the claws of routine and social convention. Everybody wants special pictures at their wedding so they can show and tell their children their own story, but really it's just the same old story of two people marrying, just with different actors every time. And it's not the photographer's fault. The truth is you can't document a relationship in one day. It takes time and many tries to get some good pictures.
And although it's bitter sweet sometimes, other times being different pays off and people like you.
I have to confess, when I was a lot younger, I'm such a big fan of 'this guy from Seattle', so forgive me if it sounded melancholic; I have to say that your 'self' picture above, perfected by the commentary that followed, really strike me in the guts..
Anyway, it won't hurt to have some 'sun' shinning in life
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