Thanks everyone for all the helpful replies! I really appreciate reading your thoughts and experience. You've made clear to me that my budget needs revising.
Twitch - thanks! I didn't realize before reading your post that the 360 doesn't swivel.
Luis, I'll admit those low price tags are starting to look too good to be true. If I could be sure, I might try one, and not worry too much about the lack of wireless.
Gene, you have been most helpful with your posts. Really. Thank you.
This chart was really helpful to me:
Pentax P-TTL Hot Shoe Flash Comparison - a knol by Matthew Miller
Looks like the Metz 58 has EVERYTHING. A pretty penny, for sure, but it has every feature I could ever hope to have. (Unless, of course, I am overlooking something, which is quite possible!) Oh, except high speed sync. Is that an important feature that I will be sorry to not have?
I'm still open to thoughts. Gene and ozzi-paul, thanks again for your informative posts. I think I am now leaning toward the Metz 48. Maybe the 58 if I feel I can justify it. I like what I am reading about the power, and since I want to bounce off a brolly or shoot through a diffuser, that makes a difference for me. BUT....yeesh, the pricetag! The guide numbers on the AF540 look great too, but it is lacking in so many of the features when compared with the 58.
Any other advice/input before I make it final?