I hate to post questions that I feel like I should be able to find through my own research. I have read several helpful pieces here and some general "so you want to know how to use a flash..." articles elsewhere on the web, but I could use some direct advice if someone would be so good as to indulge me.
When I bought my K5ii 3 years ago I vowed not to use a flash for a year. Not using one has improved my photography significantly. I learned to shoot on film, but have been gradually dumbed down with the rest of the population by point and shoot automation and needed to reconnect with it. I went back to film for about 6 months and then bought my K5ii and shoot both now. I still don't feel the need to use a flash with film.
3 Years later, I've barely used a flash, but I'm at a point where I think it's time. I do use the on-camera flash effectively in sunlight with a subject in the foreground. Where I think I need it now is in two places:
1) Bounce flash indoors
2) Macro photography
I have a small collection of modern and legacy lenses. It's probably not important that I use manual aperture lenses for bounce flash, but my Macro lens is totally manual. I get that ring flashes are a common best solution for macro photography and I THINK that they are not going to help me otherwise. Certainly they don't enable me to bounce off of a wall.
I'm ashamed to admit that I've used an LED flashlight for macro in the past and I have used the on-camera flash, but I can't do that at 1:1 macro with it without getting a lens shadow over the subject. It seems to me that if I had a tilt flash that I could trigger wirelessly I could position it to use for macro as well, but I'm not finding posts of people claiming success with that method.
I liked the look (and price) of the new Metz flash that came out and I see used ring and hotshoe flashes at reasonable prices, but I haven't been confident that I knew what I need in a flash. I did see that useful chart that compared features, but I'm not sure what I really need. I'd rather not have multiple solutions, but tell me if I just need to get over that. I don't see myself at this point doing a lot of flash photography, so I don't want to over-invest, but I do want to get what I need and if it comes down to it, I will. I have a few macro lenses that I was going to list "sale or trade" and request flash units as trades, but I don't trust that I will understand what I'm being offered.
Help?