Originally posted by filoxophy Interesting post/photo. From where I stand, it sure looks distasteful. I guess I would have to know the stories of those women in your photo to really make a judgment though. But it's kind of depressing to think that people need to be instructed how to act properly at a memorial site for thousands killed by terrorists.
Like Filoxophy, I'd have to know more, but my inclination is to react differently. Every public memorial like this one becomes, and should become, something like a public park. (This is true even of some cemeteries.) I am thinking of the many civil war memorials found in cities, towns and villages in the US, Grant's tomb in NYC, the civil war memorial in the park in old Allegheny city in PIttsburgh (which filoxophy will know). People can and do pause to contemplate the sacrifice of those named and honored there, but they also just sit, have picnics and the like (or do both). I think it's a better thing, and that it does the dead more honor, to memorialize them in public places, where they or their memory remain a part of the life of the world to which they belonged than to tuck a memorial away in a shrine. To sound a more personal note, when I do pause to read the tablets in such places, I don't find the fact that other people pay them no mind distracts me.