Originally posted by magkelly I really don't like being taken as a potential child abuser
You really don't get to say that, yet. Maybe in a few years, with the way the paranoia and mass hysteria is rising, but you do NOT get to compare your situation to men's in this context.
Women get a pass on almost anything legal, and in the rare event that they are charged with abuse of a child, they often get probation or similar sentences where men get years in prison. Often the reasons cited for these inequitable sentences include that they have children! Women are not casually suspected of being deviants, or terrorists, or anything. Women are also much more likely to be believed about any accusations they make. You have a very privileged position in society.
Originally posted by magkelly Set your anger at the very idea that someone might want you not to aside for a moment, never mind that 99% of the time the threat was only a perceived one, would you really want someone to put taking a photograph before the welfare of a child?
This is an entirely fallacious argument, and a dangerous one. You, or anyone, can be vigilant without being hostile. You can take good care of your kids, and those in your charge, without encroaching on other people's rights.
The bottom line is really this: Your kid's rights are not more important than mine, or anyone else's. Rights are inherent to everyone, and you can't pick and choose who is more important or the whole idea of human rights goes out the window. Thinking that your precious snowflake is somehow more important than anyone - or everyone - else is a conceit, and a natural one, but still wrong.
Statistically, the kinds of attacks you keep citing are very rare and in decline. Lightning could just as easily strike a kid, and it does from time to time, but it's not huge news when that happens. The only thing that's really changed is YOUR level of access to information. Your perceptions. The danger level out there isn't much different than 50 years ago, or more. You just didn't hear about it back then. There was no net, and these stories were hushed up out of Christian repression and shame rather than shouted from every television.
And y'know what? The vast majority of people, and their children, lived normal lives, completely oblivious to these monsters in the shadows that you see everywhere now - that you TRY to see everywhere now - because the media tells you to.
The worst part of all this is that once those rights we keep talking about are encroached on, it is a long and bloody process to get them back. It's not about keeping the kids safe, it's about the rich and powerful keeping themselves in that position, and they will use every method at their disposal to encourage ever encroaching legislation to perpetuate their position. Between the terrorist bogeyman targeted at the male audience, and the pedophile bogeyman targeted at the female audience, you are selling yourselves out as a society, and most of you don't even understand why, or who really benefits from it.
On a final note, kudos for trying to debate it, and coming back to that debate, when you're clearly in the minority opinion here (to be diplomatic about it). Discussion promotes thinking about the issues, and that might eventually lead to some progress.