Originally posted by Bcrary3 I'm not as inexperienced as some may think,
Certainly no one here has said you are inexperienced as a photographer. But the questions you ask clearly indicate you have no experience in business. MagKelly makes some very good points. In the old days you would apprentice under a master in whatever trade you entered, carpenter, mason, photographer. The apprentice learned the trade by doing. But more importantly they gained the contacts needed to be successful once they struck out on their own. They learned the business side as well as the craft side, policies, procedures, how to get paid, how to deal with customers, what to do in ugly situations. In this case, what to charge, what printer to use, the names of the wedding planners that will get you gigs, what equipment works what doesn't, what gear you need what you don't, what is in fashion what is not.
Originally posted by Bcrary3 nobody is willing to help me, or take me under them
How many have you asked? Have you ever shot a wedding? Done the post process? Got the prints made and delivered? Apologized to an irate crying bride because the one shot of her and Uncle Victor makes her look fat? And don't say no one is willing to help you. A half dozen people have taken the time to answer your questions with well thought out answers. Please take a moment to consider that 20 or 30 years of experience just might have some insight into this business.
Here are some suggestions:
1) Make a list of all the photographers within say a 20 mile radius (or more if you think it practical). Go knock on the front door of every single one of them. Simply say you are trying to start out in photography as a career and you are looking for summer work as an assistant or second shooter. Dress nice, comb your hair and have a business card with nothing but your name and phone number on it. Don't worry about a business name or anything else, just name & number. Explain what you want, hand them a card and shut up. If they say get lost go to the next one. Somewhere along the line you will find some old guy looking to teach somebody. That's the guy you want.
2) Take a serious look at stock photography. Nothing is a more brutal learning experience. Nobody is going to look at your work and say "ooh nice", it either sells or it's junk. Instantaneous feedback. If you can make it in stock you can do anything in photography. I learned more in the first year of doing it than I did in the previous 25 years. You won't make a lot of money, at least at first until you have a good sized portfolio but you can make money at it. And you will certainly learn a lot. I don't want to post stock agencies here but if you are interested PM me.
I'm not trying to discourage you, rather I'm standing up and applauding loudly. Your ambition and determination are admirable. Just, please do your research first and learn the trade before jumping in.