Originally posted by Damn Brit We have a family friend who is pestering me to shoot her wedding. I told her to look for some photographers and send me links to their websites and I would vet them for her.
Her problem is, she is seeing prices in the region of $4000 but she had budgeted for $2000 and she can't get it round her head what the correct priority should be so she keeps asking me to relent.
People do get married without the money for a photographer, if they see an ad for $200 they might jump on it out of desperation.
I agree, many times young couples get married on a shoe string and can't afford much. However, they don't reduce their expectations to suit their budget. "Budget" what is that? They have a Champaign taste with a Beer budget". But that is typical of youth, isn't it?
44 years ago my wife and I got married and the practice then was to go to the photographers studio and have a couple of b/w photos taken (we had a low budget, hardly anything), but now the kids have gotten so accustomed to having everything they want given to them by their parents that they think that they should have everything, without pain. Oops, that doesn't happen. now what? Can they get their head around lower expectations? Maybe fewer photos? They don't think of the photographers time.
I went to my wife's niece's wedding a few years ago and took some pictures as a family member, They had hired a professional photographer, (who's way I stayed out of). But I took some shots that I liked. I printed out a few photos for them and those were the ones that they framed and hung. I don't think they purchased any from the pro that they had hired.
I felt bad for the pro, I hope they charged enough for their time, but mine were the ones that they hung. I know that their budget was an issue.