thanks for the feedback everyone!
GB, this is my first attempt at a website so i will definitely make mistakes but i hope to learn from them and get somewhere.
as for the site being "unfinished," well, google puts out beta products to the public and keep them as betas for years (gmail is a good example)... so it's not unheard of...
FR, the site is hosted by Zenfolio, which, after careful consideration was chosen over smugmug. i could have hosted the site myself but it's way too much work. i also ran my own email server and got so much spam that i had to stop and just went with gmail. i will take the email adress off the site because like you said it definitely invite spammers so thanks for the tip!
wrt load speed, it works well for me but i've heard of zenfolio users complaining so hopefully that will improve. also, i uploaded full resolution pics in case i actually get print orders where higher res could be a benefit.
as for the concept, i hate to say it but that is also a work in progress
people i've talked to seem to like the idea so i'll just have to see where it goes.
and i'm sure that plenty of people could find flaws in that "old woman's hand" photo - too much PP, not enough PP, poor lighting, too noisy, too dark, too light, was not taken with a FF CaNikon
, etc