Originally posted by GingeM So the stereotype that Asians tend to be more academically adept than other races is a bad thing then. Stereotypes aren't all bad... It's just you people on the left that have tried to make them that way.
If you say that's an innate characteristic of being Asian, so they don't need education, or that you can call them 'eggheads' or not believe it when an Asian says he's clueless with math and doesn't know kung fu, then, or claim an Asian is constitutionally-incapable of athletics or driving, then yeah. You're still taking someone's humanity away and substituting your own label. Sure, different cultures emphasize certain things. Maybe yours has specialized in snobbery and an unjustified sense of superiority and knowing everything better than the rest of the world about their own lives, or something. You're certainly stereotypically, if atavistically, playing the class-snob, coming here telling us what to do while disdaining actually being *part* of this country. Oh, right, that's not being British, that's being *colonialist.*
It also doesn't mean you didn't just make bigoted remarks about Irish people. "You're (only) good for fighting and being police and firefighters," may sound like a 'positive stereotype,' but even if it happens to be true of a lot of people, it doesn't mean you're treating them as human: you're treating them as a label.
You could reasonably cast me as stereotypically-Irish, myself: I'm scrappy, good with words and the law, mystical, poetic, and I do like a Guinness and a whiskey more than most: but you couldn't say so much for most of my family, or say I breed like rabbits, am a slave to the Catholic Church, am lazy or have a short temper or don't understand Special Relativity just fine, thanks very much.
So, I can't carry a tune in a bucket, there must be something *terribly* wrong with that Irish chick, eh? She must be just not trying. Lazy Irish.
I grew up scarcely knowing what a drunken person was *like,* for all the good that did me. So how far does your stereotype go?
Chalk it up to mixed ancestry, maybe.
See where that goes?
Mixing in compliments doesn't make a bigoted statement right, either, Ginge.
Another aspect of this is to say, "I'm not drunk! That's Irish people, or black people, or native Americans, or whoever..."
Or "My view of marriage isn't totally-messed up and untenable! It's the gays giving conservative Christians the highest divorce and domestic abuse rates in the nation! My identity is virtuous! Theirs is where to put the scorn! Preachers and conservative pols can't keep it in their pants, but it's all 'the gays' undermining marriage! They're the promiscuous ones, and it's all about me, me, me, me! So what if over eighty percent of gay sex scandals are about Republicans! It's the other party that is insufficiently homophobic! Gay-lovers! That's all they are! Places to dump what I can't face about my own identity and failed ideas! Filthy, shameful, aggressive gays trying to force their 'lifestyle' on us by not letting us force ours on them! So what if slave-owners used black women for personal harems! It's the black men, they're always after the white women! The Jews are after our children! That's why we have to take their children away and Christianize them! To stop them from being Jew child-stealers! The Catholic clergy doesn't molest kids, homosexuals do! Those savage native peoples! They'll exterminate us, or burn us over a fire while reciting strange incantations to appease some sacrifice-demanding God! How bloody are they!"
And on and on. Stereotypes are where people place all of their own shame and insecurity.
The thing about saying, "Well, Asians are good at math," kind of has that back-end of "I'm white, so I can be anti-intellectual: they can be the 'geeks.' Being a 'geek' is at best equivocal as regards my sense of masculinity and dominance."