Originally posted by Ash This quote is particularly amusing:
Keith Mason, the president of Personhood USA, is transparent about his motives: “Certainly women, my wife included, would want to know if the pills they’re taking would kill a unique human individual. And I think there’s a lot of misinformation about that, or lack of information.” Sadly, Mason is not alone. Rachel Maddow reports that this Saturday is the fourth annual Protest the Pill event. Each year the event, put on by another fringe group called American Life League, features slogans like “The pill kills babies,” “The pill kills women,” and “The pill kills marriage.”
Ironic that some people actually believe this, citing misinformation is what's stopping people from accepting that the pill kills...
Errr, what?
'The pill' does not 'kill.' Just cause there are unique genetics to any given bit of spoo combined with any given ovum *doesn't* mean it's 'killing' someone to *not make that particular body.* People who insisted so, nearly *killed* my mother, me, my sister, and my nephew, if nothing else will convince you that some things just aren't for moralists to impose.
It may have even *actually* killed a brother I never got to know. (Not so sure, there, but some things far more heavy-handed than 'the pill' were sold on the very premises you spout here)
But they treated perfectly-natural miscarriage as something so shameful, that there's been nary a child born to my family for thirty years that didn't require heroic medical intervention.
Maybe that was someone else's choice. Maybe, I even try to respect that. What I *don't* respect is people treating me *and* my mother as if everyone had to be in pain so they can claim some 'comfortable' definition.
Then of course, treat me as a 'mistake,' 'Freak of nature,' cause, you know, while there's always been totally natural ways to 'turn out queer,' it's really *irritating* to hear people claiming that massive doses of prenatal hormones are only a factor if they're used to reinforce some idea that not-having-babies makes a woman a criminal, but of course never to accept that, hey, sometimes this is what you get.
Same people want to insist *I* have children in some sham marriage and call *that* 'natural,' or else treat *me* like a 'murderer'
No.
I'm actually still thankful for my life, but you know, it's not something I'd *demand* anyone else go through, and forget about some clump of cells, ...if there's anything 'unique' about the person I am, then that person probably *would* say, 'It's OK, Ma. This is nothing to get yourself ripped open over.
Wasn't my choice, either, you know, but it shouldn't have been about shame and fear and scorn. And some idea 'suffering is good for you.'
Yeah, I like to think I'm pretty unique, but I'm a leaf on the wind. And every leaf, every snowflake, every *wind* is unique and precious. There will and would be others. More pointedly: You can't force it. That's actually a good thing, you know. That's *why* the preciousness. Things have a way of going very , very, bad when someone tries forcing it..
It's kind of like sex itself, motherhood is: If you try and force it upon another, *you profane it.* What's more, you *break* it. It's something deeply sacred and it needs hearkening to quieter voices than politicians and theocrats say to do *right.*