Originally posted by magkelly Lately selling on CL/Ebay has become a real crapshoot. You post an ad on CL for anything on sale and you end up with tons of scammers all over the place trying the above and even more contacting you and then vanishing the moment you go to actually set up a live meeting etc. There's also been a real problem with people fishing for very personal info, info I am just not prepared to give to some person I don't even know off of CL.
I'm extremely careful about not giving too much personal info, about meeting in a public place, making sure that where I do meet someone has some security in place that I'm not just meeting in a parking lot or whatever. I take a cell with me, let someone know where I am going and when I'm supposed to be back, that kind of thing. I never let people just come to my house or give out the house phone # versus the throw away cell. I hate being this paranoid but there have been some really bad things that have happened off of ads posted on CL, muggings, rapes, and the like and I'd rather lose a sale than risk personal injury.
I had one guy the other day try to buy something I have up and without even asking me he sent some thing from Pay Pal with that exact amount on it. Supposedly I had to click and that was it, a Pay Pal link would come up and we could complete the transaction from there. I just laughed at the guy and sent him back an email telling him I didn't use Pay Pal and that I knew a phishing scam page when I saw one, but I am sure there are people out there who would indeed be fooled by something like this.
I have a bunch of collectibles that I inherited a couple of years ago from a family member that I really need to start selling this Fall. It's time I got rid of some of it. I still need things for my studio that I'm not going to get anytime soon unless I start selling all the stuff my aunt left me. I have a friend who sells on there all the time so I thought about going the Ebay/Pay Pal route, but after listening to her horror stories and reading all the latest info about Ebay's fees and all the Pay Pal scams that are popping up everywhere I'm not going anywhere near either one of them.
I'm going to be opening a couple of little online stores (One on Etsy for me making camera straps and the like, another on Bonanza or Ruby Lane I think for the collectibles.) and accepting only postal MO's and that's it. (Selling on CL too probably, though I've never made much locally doing that.) Bad for business not taking PayPal? Probably. I'd surely make a lot more money if I did, but I just don't particularly feel comfortable using it. I've just met one too many people who has lost money to Ebay, Pay Pal, charge backs, and them not protecting sellers even though they say they will. I see no security for me there.
Ever since I first started using CL I've always known that there was a criminal element involved on there. Par for the course, but lately? It seems there are more of "them" and far fewer decent people and I'm just far more cautious than I used to be as a result.
If you know what you're doing, Ebay is easy, worthwhile, and not a risk to the seller at all. Ebay fees are not very bad either. Don't expect to sell $2 items, though. Right now, they have a list 100 items on auction free program. That's a huge savings over the normal .15-.45 listing fee.
Sellers are easily protected on ebay/paypal if they:
1) Only ship to the paypal listed address. I recommend only selling within the US as lots of overseas locations cannot get verified addresses through paypal. If you sell outside the US, send it only with insurance, and just add that into their shipping cost. If they pay what you pay for shipping, you lose nothing. If they say they didn't get it, and you are insured, you lose nothing. The only wishy washy overseas deals can be if they get a damaged item, because it's hard to go back and forth through the countries' postal systems to verify damage claims. If I sell items overseas, it's usually only sturdy ones and nothing fragile.
2) Anything shipped within the US you should add delivery confirmation. Again, just add it to the buyer's shipping fee in the listing. If a buyer submits a claim, paypal will not protect you if you do not have some kind of proof of delivery.
3) Never go to ebay or paypal through an email link. Bookmark it in your browsers or type it in yourself.
4) Take detailed pictures of the item you are selling. Hard to dispute a claim from a seller who says the LCD was cracked on your DSLR when it arrived to him, if you never had a photo on the ebay listing showing the back of the camera. If it's a really expensive item, take video of the item and of you boxing it up before you ship it out.
5) If you do buy it now ebay listings, always check off the "immediate payment required".
6) Check off selling preferences like "only allow bidders from countries I ship to", and "do not allow buyers with -1 feedback to bid".
I've been selling things on ebay since 1997 and really haven't had any troubles selling. The most troubles come from buying. Actually, the worst trouble wasn't from a transaction but from when I had $10,000 ready to plop down on ebay shares at roughly $68 each in 1998 just as they went public, and backed out at the last moment because I needed to keep that money secure for a house down payment. The stock soon went to over 100 and split.
On the flipside, Craigslist is like those seedy ads in the back of free newspapers. You never know who is buying or selling. Stay away unless you have to.