Originally posted by Jodokast96 Addictions don't just "magically" happen. Sorry, she's not a victim, and I will not treat her like one. In this day and age, there is nobody in any first world country that doesn't know what this shit will do to them.
There's a big history of addiction in my family. I have two half siblings who are struggling with booze and pills now. Neither one of them ever thought they would end up addicted, but both of them are. In my family you have to be very careful about using any chemicals. The genetics that way are just really, really bad. We've all tried to help, many times, but both of them are just totally caught up in it, and in my family this trait it goes back generations. We've lost many a relative to it.
I don't hardly drink or do social drugs. Not worth the risk, IMHO, but I do however have to take major pain pills once in a while for some serious pain. I have to just to function and you know it does scare me that I have to given my family history.
My siblings both of them are addicted to more than one thing, but I look at them and their pill addictions and I end up really being careful about how many of those pain pills I pop. I just don't want to end up like that. Given they are a necessity? I do realize that if I am not careful and very conservative that it could go that way though.
People get addicted for all sorts of reasons. Some people succumb to peer pressure and decide to use chemicals socially or experimentally and it leads to addiction. Others end up getting addicted to drugs that were prescribed for legitimate pain. No one wants to be a slave to the chemicals in their lives. No one ever likes to think they will die from using them but sometimes the addiction just becomes bigger than the person.
Addiction is a constant battle and if you don't have the heart to fight it every single day, for yourself, you simply won't win. Amy Winehouse had a choice, yes, but it's not that cut and dried. Not everyone has a strong survival instinct and a lot of artistic or famous people in particular seem to really lack one. For whatever reason they just basically commit suicide via drugs, alcohol, whatever.
It's all the more sad because they do have all the reason in the world to live, and yet, they don't. I don't know maybe it's the pressure of living your life in a fishbowl?