Originally posted by Jeff_H ...
How many people would it take for me to get the approval of before I could dictate rules to you by which you must live and conduct yourself for which the punishment for disobedience was death for you to accept such rules? How many people would need to approve of my taking 'my fair share' of your assets, as determined by me of course, before you willingly capitulated to my demands?
I'm curious. How many people would need to give me permission?
It seems to me that what you describe is not far from the organization of a primitive family. "Permissions" are not consciously granted by family members but inherited by tradition. Once power is inherited it is held by tradition and one follows daddy's lead because.... well, because that's just what one does.
Nobody gave you permission to be Daddy - you just somehow grew into that role. That role wasn't granted by the family any more than their submissive roles were imposed on them. Once you join the Framis political party & cheer for it a while you'll follow the party's lead because,... well, because that's just what one does.
The wolf-pack provides another model in which power is more seized than granted. Once power is seized it is held by tradition and one follows alpha's lead because.... well, because that's just what one does.
We by and large do what we assume we are supposed to do without much thought regarding why. How else can one understand the illogical political clap-trap fervently adhered to by all of us on one side or another?